The 14th of February marks not only Valentine’s Day but the middle of the last month of winter and therefore it’s the perfect day or week to start to refresh and do some pre-spring cleaning. Not your home, but your neglected winter body!
I don’t know about you, but I’ve not shaved my legs since the holidays, and my diet has been so-so, and most days I feel like a sack of potatoes in my oversized sweaters. I don’t feel sexy at all, nor do I feel in the mood for any couples romance.
As I wasn’t the typical outgoing teen with several boys lining outside my window, I always treated Valentine’s Day as a Self-love Day. It’s a day I would usually invite any girlfriend or pair up with my mom for some at-home spa treatments and watch a feel-good chick flick.
Whether you’ll be spending Valentine’s Day independently, with a friend or your love, I’ve gathered some tips and gifts for yourself or your loved ones to enjoy on February the 14th.
Shine bright like a diamond | Revive tired winter skin
Skin Detox: May Lindstrom Problem Solver – With carefully picked ingredients and a cult beauty status, May Lindstrom’s products are perfectly made to give you a spa-like feeling. The Problem Solver face mask helps to repair and purify the skin by stimulating the elimination of toxins and clear clogged pores and restoring your luminosity. It comes accompanied by a brush, and you can easily add the mixing bowl to complete the ritualistic look.
Have fun with your partner and apply the mask using the brush on each other. Or if you’re spending the day solo, incorporate it into a relaxing bath. Though this mask is on the expensive side – and I know you’d want every single gram of powder for yourself – make an exception on Valentine’s Day and invite a friend on a luxurious spa day with you. Alternatively: give as a gift to someone you care about.
For instant glow: First Aid Beauty Radiance Pads – Another cult beauty favorite of the masses. These simple-to-use pads contain a 5% AHA blend between lactic and glycolic acid. To help tone, firm, and brighten your complexion resulting in radiant and youthful skin. Great to use the night before a date or to revive gloomy-looking skin!
For a sensual body: Monoi Tiki Tiare Vanilla – After massaging this in you’ll be the sweetest smelling creature in the room! And watch out, someone might as well want to eat you! Pure vanilla is one of my favorite scents for both casualty and intimacy as it’s a very warming fragrance. The Monoi Tiki Tiare vanilla body oil smells just like a dessert! Mix it in with your favorite body shimmers and you’ll be left with soft and luminous skin that anyone will want a piece of! If you want a more spicy aroma, I recommend Khadi’s ayurvedic body oils!
Romance is in the air | Setting the mood
Making it Hyggeligt: Isle of Wolf Pure Plant Wax Candles* – It’s not Valentine’s Day without candles in every corner of the room! Isle of Wolf makes pure plant wax candles with GMO-free soy wax and lead-free wick that are better for the environment and your air and scented with 100% natural aroma that isn’t too overpowering but just right. And with a burning time of 40 hours, you are all set for the evening.
Boosting Libido: Moon Juice Sex Dust – Setting the mood isn’t just about a cozy and intimate environment. If the lack of sun and warmth has affected you to the point that you’re just not feeling it, you can always try sprinkle on some sex dust. Yes, Moon Juice offers a powdered aphrodisiac to jumpstart your libido! With a mix of natural Asian herbs, it’s taken a holistic approach to help you boost your energy to get into the mood. It’s worth a try, right?
Get into the Groove: Spotify Romance Playlists – My favorite way to discover new music is through Spotify’s pre-made playlists, especially the specific ones categorized by mood and activity. And Spotify happens to have over 40 playlists for romantic evenings! Whether you into the classics or any of the modern love songs, Spotify has a playlist to suit your evening!
Rent list: (500) Days of Summer (2009) | Atonement (2007) | The Apartment (1960) – Looking for movies to watch or either play in the background? These are three of my favorite romantic movies.
Let’s Marvin Gaye and get it on | For adult pleasure
Luxury Toys: LELO Couples Massager – Everyone has their type, whether you like to have fun on your own or with a partner, LELO has a toy to suit any pleasure. The massage tools are waterproof and made with extra soft silicone and most are rechargeable.
Get the versatile Smart Wand that doubles as a neck massager or goes for something fun, like the remote-controlled HULA beads that you can enjoy with your partner – LELO has some suggestions on their website! Picture: LELO Tiani 2
Lubrication: YES! Lubricants – If you’re on the dry side or generally want to avoid any soreness, the brand YES offers both water- and oil-based lubricants with all-natural ingredients and without fragrance. The YES lubricant not only makes the sex more enjoyable but also doesn’t disturb your or your partner’s delicate parts with synthetic ingredients and smells.
Staying safe: LELO HEX condoms – The condom as we know it has not changed much since it was first developed. LELO recently came out with their own spin, making our best protection against pregnancy and disease even safer. Besides being needle and tear-proof the HEX condom is also suitable for vegans!
They are called HEX because of the hexagon shape, taken inspiration straight from nature, the shape is the secret to its strength and lightness. Super thin and durable, with a classy design.